Call it what you will- adultery, unfaithfulness, an affair, the ultimate betrayal. All of these words signify one thing- cheating. Unless you are involved in an open relationship, whereby you and your partner are free to sexually experiment with other people, then engaging in sexual activity with anyone other than your partner is tantamount to cheating. For many people, this has been a cause for concern and a problem which plagues many marriages. “Is my husband being faithful to me?” If you are a married person and concerned about this, read on and discover 5 sure signs that your husband is cheating on you.
1. Suspicious Behavior With His Electronics
Everybody values a little privacy. Heck, everybody is entitled to some. This is no different when you become married. Nevertheless, privacy becomes an issue when things that weren’t once private, or seemingly harmless things that for the average person should not be considered private- worthy become just that- private.
One such instance is with electronics such as cellphones. One sure sign that your husband is cheating on you is if he receives calls and can never answer them in your presence. Some of these calls may well take place at ungodly hours of the morning and are oftentimes referred to as a “booty call”.
2. Frequently Leaving To Run Random Errands
If your husband is leaving in the middle of the night or wee hours of the morning to buy some milk when you know full well that there is milk in the fridge that you purchased the day before from the supermarket, this is suspicious behavior which is a sign that your husband is cheating on you.
3. Always Fresh and Clean
Does your husband always come home smelling like he just stepped off of a promotional tour for a fragrance campaign? Is this the case when you know that he has just finished work for the day or his shift for that day? If this describes your husband, then sad to say, this can be considered to be a sign that he is cheating on you.
4. Loss of Sexual Interest and Intimacy
Many experts will tell you that sexuality and intimacy are pillars in any healthy marriage. That being said, everyone’s sexual appetites and libidos are different. If you are used to a partner with a big sexual appetite and this has suddenly decreased, there may be a medical or psychological explanation for this. If these are proved not to be the case, however, this too can be considered to be a sign that your husband is cheating on you.
Likewise with intimacy, if you realize that your husband has suddenly lost interest in you and no longer has a desire to be intimate with you, failing the medical or psychological issues mentioned above, then your husband is cheating on you.
5. Finding Evidence
One sure sign that your husband is being unfaithful is finding evidence of his infidelity. This can take many forms, including text messages, messages via various social media platforms exchanged between your partner and another, underwear not belonging to you and condoms not used with you.
When it comes to cheating, there are most definitely some signs. While some may be hidden and a little harder to discover, others are more overt, such as the ones mentioned in this article above. All of these signs listed hinge on a partner’s behaviour, or rather their change in behaviour towards their partner. If you are concerned that your husband is cheating on you, be weary of these five signs.